A lot of the time I find myself thinking of my life in terms of how __-year-old Lindsey would have thought. For example, if you’d have gone back only a few short years–let’s say four years ago–23-year-old Lindsey would have scoffed at the idea that I would cook several meals a week, especially meals that included 1) meat and 2) the oven. 23-year-old Lindsey’s favorite meal was pasta smothered with sauteed mushrooms, black olives, and parmesan cheese (the Sargento pre-shredded kind in a bag, not the good stuff), and I never ever baked anything in the oven. (I STILL love that meal–it’s a definite comfort staple of mine–but my cooking repertoire has expanded quite a bit.) And if you’d told me I would not only be cooking with meat, but that I would be handling it with my bare hands? I would have thought you to be delusional.
One of my biggest regrets is that I never took my mom up on any offers to teach me how to cook (first because I was utterly uninterested in learning how to cook, and then later because I was in denial about how much time we had left together), but living on my own and becoming more interested in food/ingredients gradually moved me into the kitchen. The prospect of cohabitating with a big meat-eater (Michael’s favorite food is steak, to no one’s surprise) made me determined to learn how to cook with meat, even though I don’t normally eat a lot of meat. My diet is fairly vegetarian in nature, with seafood added when I can get it, and only occasionally including meat; my cooking goals for living out here are to increase the amount of fruits and vegetables I eat and still incorporate meat into at least one dish a week for Michael.
Michael and I have a great arrangement: I do all the cooking, and he does all the dishes. I buy all the groceries; he treats when we eat out. It works out really well, and he doesn’t mind at all that he’s my guinea pig for my cooking experiments. He’s been subjected to oversalted, undercooked broccoli, wine sauce that tasted like bile (too much lemon juice added), and dry chicken…but I think I hit more than I miss! Three recent discoveries: meat thermometers are AWESOME, those Ziploc microwave steam bags make fresh broccoli really yummy, and freezing (and subsequently thawing) meat is really easy. I know these may all seem obvious, but to a cooking novice they are earth-moving!
While I love making dinner, I REALLY love baking tasty treats. I love the precision and measuring component of baking, and it always makes me think of making pumpkin bread every holiday season with my mom. A more recent association is of my best friend, who makes the best vegan treats you’ve ever had (…except those spice cookies, which would set your tongue on fire). Baking, therefore, reminds me of two of my most favorite people in the whole world AND it involves math and cute little measuring spoons and bowls! What’s not to love? Most recently, I made vegan vanilla cupcakes for Michael’s BFF’s birthday, and from all accounts they were a hit. Yay! I don’t bake as much as I’d like because there are just two of us, but once we start having people over to the house I am going to ply everyone with baked goods.
My favorite recipes:
Tequila-Lime Chicken, from Ina Garten. I omitted all the spicy stuff because I can’t really take even a hint of heat in my food, marinated it overnight, and cooked it on a grill pan: DELICIOUS! So flavorful and easy, and now that I know the magic of a meat thermometer I know my next attempt will be even better.
Penne with Beef and Arugala, from Giada de Laurentiis. This is one I’ve gone back to a few times, because it’s really easy and delicious. The arugala gives it a subtle peppery flavor, but spinach works just as well.
Parmesan Chicken, from RecipeMatcher. It’s called “Garlic Chicken” on the website, but I left out the garlic and only baked it in the oven for 20 minutes instead of 30 (I used the meat thermometer). I made it last night and served it with spaghetti and pomodoro sauce. So easy, and I know I’ll make this again soon.
Pasta al Forno, from Rachael Ray. This is one of my favorite last-minute foods to prepare (I normally leave out the prosciutto because I don’t have it on hand) and it’s SO GOOD. It tastes amazing with black olives added, if you like them. The pinch of cinnamon makes all the difference!
Nigella’s Pasta, from Nigella Lawson. Holy crap, this is awesome. Anything that has lemon zest, mushrooms, and olive oil in it automatically piques my interest, and this is so good you want to make more pasta just to sop up the extra sauce.
Man, writing about food is making me hungry! For lunch, I’m going to go put my food processor to use and make a batch of pasta with a sauteed-mushroom-black-olive-toasted-pine-nuts-grated-parmesan pesto on top. YUMMMMMMMMMMMM
i might have to give the lemon-mushroom pasta a try. thyme has recently become one of my favorite herbs. i had no idea!
By: BethR on September 10, 2008
at 12:48 pm
the cupcakes were great!
By: monique on September 10, 2008
at 12:55 pm
Man! That is a great arrangement y’all have. I still view the dishes as a disproportionately awful job (and cooking as a phenomenally awesome one), so I feel guilty handing over the dish scrubby. I’m sure over time I’ll be less reluctant.
I’ll have to pick up some of those steam bags! I usually only make food for myself, and being able to just put a little portion of broccoli in a bag would be convenient.
I miss you! And I still think there is hope for you and Michael to convert to veganism. Keep cooking!
By: taya on September 11, 2008
at 4:53 am
Hi! I enjoy reading your posts and I’m adding your blog link to mine, I hope that is cool with you. I wish the best of luck and love to you guys
Penne with Beef and Arugala – yummy!!!
By: modestapparels on September 11, 2008
at 10:21 am
@ Taya: I hate to dash your optimism, but there is seriously like a negative 300% chance of me ever becoming vegan. Unless one day I go to the doctor and the doctor tells me, “Michael, if you don’t go on a strict vegan diet immediately YOU WILL DIE” then it’s just not happening.
HOWEVER! I have made huge strides (for me) in reducing the amount of meat I eat on a weekly basis. The past two nights I’ve eaten vegetarian dinners! And Lindsey baked some vegan chocolate chip cookies the other day that are really fucking good! Contrast this with my life pre-Lindsey when I’d usually go 6 months between a meatless meal. Baby steps!
By: michael on September 12, 2008
at 9:14 am
ack, lemon juice in wine sauce! please don’t ever do that again. wines already have some level of acidity, their level depends on what sort of wine you’re using. stick to herbs and other savories such as garlic and onions, shallots.
i will share my easy-breezy wine sauce recipe with you! dice one shallot or one third of an onion fine and saute over low heat in either butter or olive oil, your choice. cook the onion/shallot until it is translucent then throw in about 1 cup of red or white wine. increase the flame and cook it on high until it reduces and coats the back of a spoon. while the wine cooks on high, you can also stir in herbs such as tarragon, thyme, fresh parsley or chopped, lightly sauteed mushrooms. ( i prefer criminis!) add a little salt and pepper to taste and voila!
tip: use white wine for poultry and fish. i recommend a sauvignon blanc or fume blanc. the drier the better. or if you can spare it, a champagne sauce goes beautifully with scallops!
red wine is best for beef and pork. use a pinot noir or cabernet sauvignon. and port wine or madeira is most excellent when serving steak, especially a bit drizzled over bleu cheese crumbles! the sweet/salty combo is mouth watering!
By: Angie on September 12, 2008
at 10:00 am
ps: you can also add a dash of cream to make into a creamy wine sauce if you don’t mind the calorie/fat increase.
By: Angie on September 12, 2008
at 10:02 am
Angie, thanks! The sauce in question was from a Chicken Francaise recipe with chicken broth, wine, and lemon juice, and I accidentally added about 3x the amount of lemon juice it called for. OMG, it was so awful.
That wine sauce recipe of yours sounds great, though! I don’t normally cook with onions because neither Michael or I like them, but I’m curious about cooking with shallots.
I have some madeira that I really want to use at some point, and steak sounds like the perfect excuse.
By: heartofkudzu on September 12, 2008
at 6:37 pm
people usually aren’t too keen on onions cos they’re so strong when they’re raw. cooking them out makes their flavor less harsh. shallots are very mild in flavor so those are good to use for people that are not into onion. you can use shallots in place of onion in almost any recipe. also, when onions are cooked enough, they tend to get a sweeter flavor cos the natural sugars get released and cooked, hence caramelizing.
and yes, madeira and steak is a winning combo!
i was also going to suggest throwing in a half cup of any red wine in a spaghetti sauce and taste how yummy it becomes!
if you would like any more cooking tips, feel free to email me. i went to cooking school so i have tons of stuff in my head and notebooks!
By: Angie on September 13, 2008
at 2:15 pm